Have you been faced with a decision that caused you to rethink the whole concept of life?
What is perception? It is the awareness of elements of the environment through physical; a capacity for comprehension.
When making a decision often one will consult with a friend, mate, or just themself. Ultimately whatever decision is made, it is yours. Meaning the opinion of one can not be the cause of one’s actions.
The Blame Game
- a situation in which one party blames others for something bad or unfortunate rather than attempting to seek a solution.
- a situation in which different individuals or groups attempt to assign blame to each other for some problem or failure.
Why do we play the blame game with life? One may say, it’s because of the personal guilt of missing out. Missing out on what is believed to be lost.
Do you feel that you are in a race with time? Time in which you miss a goal, a plan that can potentially change your life. With changes come fears, with your fears do you feel that is a cause for a race of time in which you can not receive back?
Making changes in your life that are being put into question. These are things that cause expectations. Expectations for yourself as well as others around you, but have you heard the saying “expectations lead to disappointments.”
What is the outcome you desire to succeed the right way? In the Academy Award-nominated documentary “TIME,” I quote, ‘you can’t expect good when you’re going to trouble.’
Rapper artist Rick Ross, expressed once ‘I don’t wanna waste time.’; time can not be given back to you. Understanding that time is precious can help you with moving forward with decisions that come. The theory of the light at the end of the tunnel can be your reality.
Changing the word “wish” with “ will” can be the help you need in order to get the motivation you have been seeking after.
Lastly, leaving you with this, making a decision can be hard when you are unable to know the direction to go. Don’t allow yourself to be stuck on the ‘hard’ part. Take the time to see it as a way in which your being is put in a place to level up. Each chapter of elevation is different for each individual. H.A.R.D in this adulting journey stands for:
H- Honest
A- Accountability
R- Revolving
D- Decisions
Think about that when crossed with a decision that may seem as if it is H.A.R.D.
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